Emotional Mastery

Instead of RESULTS –_ FEELING GOOD, switch it around to FEELING GOOD –_ RESULTS

Because It’s Fun!

One of the most profound observations that I’ve made over the years is that humans are at their best when they feel their best.

Which means we all have tremendous incentive to become more masterful at creating the high vibe moods – feeling great.

The biggest mistake that I observe people making in the pursuit of excellence and their dreams is…

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Surrender to Uncertainty

We can’t know what’s going to happen next. We can guess with a reasonable degree of certainty, based on historical observation, but even a great degree of certainty contains a degree of uncertainty as well. So we get to make a choice here. We can either be cool with uncertainty (which is freedom), or we can struggle against it (which is hell).

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Cabo 16 SURRENDER

SURRENDER

In the context of Emotional Mastery, Surrender means to make the courageous and masterful decision to stop struggling against reality. The ability to surrender requires transcending the egoic temptation to force things in order to get what you want.

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Cabo 15 Do It Anyway!

Do It Anyway!

When we feel like crap emotionally, it is virtually effortless to go into a state of complete inaction. We just want to blow everything off, vegetate and mope. And that becomes a downward spiral of feeling worse and more immobilized.

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Cabo 14 Synchronicity

Synchronicity

As Paulo Coelho, author of The Alchemist, says, “When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.” The synchronicities are those wonderful, supportive conspiracies.

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Cabo 13 The Dark Side

The Dark Side

We are perfect in our imperfection. We are designed to grow and we GET TO do just that. When we do the work of deep personal growth, we are shining the light of consciousness upon that equally beautiful part of our personality, the “dark side” and transforming it. This is the ultimate game.

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Cabo 12 Everywhere is Sacred

Everywhere is Sacred

The conditioning of our pasts would have us believe falsely that we need to wait for external conditions to be magnificent in order to feel magnificent. We have the amazing ability to manipulate our inner states at will, in an instant.

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Cabo 11 The Victim

The Victim

We do not live in a happening TO ME world. We live in a happening FOR ME world.
The learning here is to be cool with the fact that we have all been well educated to play victim. We get to unlearn that and return to our natural creator mentality.

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